Title: May 28, 2008
Q: My daughter, who just turned 18 years old, had a child with a man who has a criminal record. They never married. The baby is a little over 2 years old now. My daughter wants to have sole custody of the child, but this man insists that he wants joint custody of the child and wants to be involved in the life of the child. What should we do?
A: If your daughter just turned 18 and the baby is over 2 years old, this man committed statutory rape. Your daughter was only 16 years old when she gave birth to the child, and was probably only 15 when she was impregnated. She needs to file a Paternity action with the Court to establish who will have custody of the child and also to establish how much child support this man must pay to her. She could certainly also file charges against him for statutory rape. If he already has a criminal record in addition to the statutory rape charge, it is unlikely that he will obtain any kind of custody of this child.
Q: If older people with families from previous marriages get married again, how do they each protect what they want to leave to their own children or grandchildren?
A: By having a Revocable Living Trust prepared, called an A-B Revocable Living Trust. Each trustor basically sets up his/her own trust, although the A-B Trust is usually combined in one book. Each trustor can give his/her assets to members of a previous family, or friends, or a charity or church. Such a trust is very flexible and there are numerous ways of leaving one’s assets to beneficiaries. If one trustor dies before the other, that portion of the Trust becomes irrevocable, and assets from the deceased trustor can be distributed according to the deceased trustor’s wishes, right then and there. I highly recommend that everyone have a Living Trust. If you own a house in California, you should have a Living Trust. The threshold for an estate to have to go through the Probate process when one dies is $100,000. Even though the real estate market is in a downward mode at this time, it is unlikely that your house is worth less than $100,000. Do not think that only the equity is counted towards the minimum threshold. It does not matter that you have a mortgage still on the house. It is the value of your entire estate, i.e. bank accounts, stocks, bonds, cars, jewelry, art, real estate, boat, RV. All will be added up towards the minimum threshold. Having a Living Trust and transferring your assets into the Living Trust will protect your beneficiaries from having your estate go through Probate Court and will instead be transferred directly to them through a minimal process.
Maxine de Villefranche has been an attorney for 15 years and is practicing law in Tehachapi and Lancaster. Send your questions via fax at (661)825-8880 or e-mail at maxinedev@msn.com. She will answer your questions to the best of her abilities.
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Legal Eaze #25 Schizophrenia Again/Paternity
Title: June 29, 2005
Maxine de Villefranche is an attorney and civil general practitioner with 13 years of experience. She operates her law practice from her new office in town, as well her Lancaster satellite office. She will answer legal questions posed to her by the readers, to the best of her abilities. Please forward your questions to maxinedev@msn.com.
A very nice lady wrote me a letter about the schizophrenic young man I talked about in my last “Legal Eaze” column. She informed me that there are very few available hospital beds for the mentally ill, and they are only available for the most seriously mentally ill, i.e. must be s serious danger to self, to others or gravely disabled, in other words cannot feed, shelter and dress themselves.
She explained that she has a son who has been ill with schizophrenia for 28 years and it has been a long and difficult road in attempting to provide the help and the care her son requires. She suggested that the only legal solution available to desperate parents is to obtain a restraining order against a mentally ill adult child. Obviously, this would entail homelessness or ending up in the criminal justice system. Our jails and prisons are filled with mentally-ill inmates, who in the past were cared for in state hospitals. Unfortunately, these state hospitals have pretty much been all closed, leaving the mental patients to fend for themselves. However, she mentioned Luann Baldwin, MSW, a family advocate with Kern County Mental Health Dept., who can be reached at (661)868-6109. Also mentioned is a group called NAMI (Nat’l Alliance for the Mentally Ill), which meets in Tehachapi once a month. This is a local, state and national organization providing support, education and advocacy for consumers and family members. For more information about this organization, call (661)822-5391. I apologize for previously misinforming my readers.
Q. I have been sued for paternity by a woman I dated last year after she broke up with her boyfriend of many years. She told me almost from the beginning that she was pregnant by this man. Now, she has sued me for child support. I am not the father of this child and I do not want to pay child support for a child that is not mine. What can I do?
A. You need to respond to the Paternity lawsuit within 30 days from service of process by explaining that you are not the father of the child and that the woman who is suing you admitted to you that she was impregnated by another man. Specify that you want a DNA test to prove that you are not the father. These DNA tests are very accurate and if you are telling the truth, you will be exonerated. Good luck.
Maxine de Villefranche is an attorney and civil general practitioner with 13 years of experience. She operates her law practice from her new office in town, as well her Lancaster satellite office. She will answer legal questions posed to her by the readers, to the best of her abilities. Please forward your questions to maxinedev@msn.com.
A very nice lady wrote me a letter about the schizophrenic young man I talked about in my last “Legal Eaze” column. She informed me that there are very few available hospital beds for the mentally ill, and they are only available for the most seriously mentally ill, i.e. must be s serious danger to self, to others or gravely disabled, in other words cannot feed, shelter and dress themselves.
She explained that she has a son who has been ill with schizophrenia for 28 years and it has been a long and difficult road in attempting to provide the help and the care her son requires. She suggested that the only legal solution available to desperate parents is to obtain a restraining order against a mentally ill adult child. Obviously, this would entail homelessness or ending up in the criminal justice system. Our jails and prisons are filled with mentally-ill inmates, who in the past were cared for in state hospitals. Unfortunately, these state hospitals have pretty much been all closed, leaving the mental patients to fend for themselves. However, she mentioned Luann Baldwin, MSW, a family advocate with Kern County Mental Health Dept., who can be reached at (661)868-6109. Also mentioned is a group called NAMI (Nat’l Alliance for the Mentally Ill), which meets in Tehachapi once a month. This is a local, state and national organization providing support, education and advocacy for consumers and family members. For more information about this organization, call (661)822-5391. I apologize for previously misinforming my readers.
Q. I have been sued for paternity by a woman I dated last year after she broke up with her boyfriend of many years. She told me almost from the beginning that she was pregnant by this man. Now, she has sued me for child support. I am not the father of this child and I do not want to pay child support for a child that is not mine. What can I do?
A. You need to respond to the Paternity lawsuit within 30 days from service of process by explaining that you are not the father of the child and that the woman who is suing you admitted to you that she was impregnated by another man. Specify that you want a DNA test to prove that you are not the father. These DNA tests are very accurate and if you are telling the truth, you will be exonerated. Good luck.
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