Title: May 28, 2008
Q: My daughter, who just turned 18 years old, had a child with a man who has a criminal record. They never married. The baby is a little over 2 years old now. My daughter wants to have sole custody of the child, but this man insists that he wants joint custody of the child and wants to be involved in the life of the child. What should we do?
A: If your daughter just turned 18 and the baby is over 2 years old, this man committed statutory rape. Your daughter was only 16 years old when she gave birth to the child, and was probably only 15 when she was impregnated. She needs to file a Paternity action with the Court to establish who will have custody of the child and also to establish how much child support this man must pay to her. She could certainly also file charges against him for statutory rape. If he already has a criminal record in addition to the statutory rape charge, it is unlikely that he will obtain any kind of custody of this child.
Q: If older people with families from previous marriages get married again, how do they each protect what they want to leave to their own children or grandchildren?
A: By having a Revocable Living Trust prepared, called an A-B Revocable Living Trust. Each trustor basically sets up his/her own trust, although the A-B Trust is usually combined in one book. Each trustor can give his/her assets to members of a previous family, or friends, or a charity or church. Such a trust is very flexible and there are numerous ways of leaving one’s assets to beneficiaries. If one trustor dies before the other, that portion of the Trust becomes irrevocable, and assets from the deceased trustor can be distributed according to the deceased trustor’s wishes, right then and there. I highly recommend that everyone have a Living Trust. If you own a house in California, you should have a Living Trust. The threshold for an estate to have to go through the Probate process when one dies is $100,000. Even though the real estate market is in a downward mode at this time, it is unlikely that your house is worth less than $100,000. Do not think that only the equity is counted towards the minimum threshold. It does not matter that you have a mortgage still on the house. It is the value of your entire estate, i.e. bank accounts, stocks, bonds, cars, jewelry, art, real estate, boat, RV. All will be added up towards the minimum threshold. Having a Living Trust and transferring your assets into the Living Trust will protect your beneficiaries from having your estate go through Probate Court and will instead be transferred directly to them through a minimal process.
Maxine de Villefranche has been an attorney for 15 years and is practicing law in Tehachapi and Lancaster. Send your questions via fax at (661)825-8880 or e-mail at maxinedev@msn.com. She will answer your questions to the best of her abilities.
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Legal Eaze #22 Guardianship/ Refund
Originally Printed: May 18, 2005
Maxine de Villefranche is an attorney and civil general practitioner with 13 years of experience. She operates her law practice from her new office in town, as well her Lancaster satellite office. She will answer legal questions posed to her by the readers, to the best of her abilities. Please forward your questions to maxinedev@msn.com.
Q. My daughter ran away with her drug-dealing boyfriend about a month ago. She left her 16-month-old baby with my husband and I and we have no idea of her whereabouts. It is incredible that we are left with total responsibility for her little boy. However, we want to make sure that she does not come back to pick up this child, only to have him around drugs and bunch of drug addicts. What should we do?
A. This theme comes back on a regular basis. You need to file a Petition for Guardianship with the County court in order to become guardians of this child. An investigation will be conducted by a court-appointed probate investigator to ascertain who would be first choice to become substitute parent(s) to the child. The Court often appoints grandparents as guardians of children left behind by drug-addicted parents. Once you are found to be fit as guardians, the Court will not allow a drug-addicted mother to again be responsible for her child until she cleans up her act. A guardianship is often temporary, until at least one parent of the child undergoes drug rehabilitation and can safely take responsibility for his/her child, but it also sometimes becomes a permanent arrangement. Drugs have become the scourge of today’s society and have affected hundreds of thousands of children across the world. They are the true victims. You are very brave to be willing to take care of this little boy and hopefully, your daughter will be thankful for what you have done for her son.
Q. I have a satellite dish to connect to the Internet, which promised immediate access, but is actually slower than dial-up. I constantly have to call in because have problems with connectivity. They charge an arm and a lef for the service, with which I am totally dissatisfied. I had to pay $700 for the dish. I want money back. Can I?
A. It is doubtful but it depends if you had a warranty and how long ago you had it installed on your property. Your story sounds so familiar. In fact, I went back to a dial-up connection because I was tired of paying $65 a month for this so-called “really fast connection”. Satellite dish is highly affected by the weather unfortunately, and of course customers are never told about these problems ahead of time. You best bet is to give your satellite company notice that you want to stop their “bad” service and find another way to connect to the Internet. Good luck!
Maxine de Villefranche is an attorney and civil general practitioner with 13 years of experience. She operates her law practice from her new office in town, as well her Lancaster satellite office. She will answer legal questions posed to her by the readers, to the best of her abilities. Please forward your questions to maxinedev@msn.com.
Q. My daughter ran away with her drug-dealing boyfriend about a month ago. She left her 16-month-old baby with my husband and I and we have no idea of her whereabouts. It is incredible that we are left with total responsibility for her little boy. However, we want to make sure that she does not come back to pick up this child, only to have him around drugs and bunch of drug addicts. What should we do?
A. This theme comes back on a regular basis. You need to file a Petition for Guardianship with the County court in order to become guardians of this child. An investigation will be conducted by a court-appointed probate investigator to ascertain who would be first choice to become substitute parent(s) to the child. The Court often appoints grandparents as guardians of children left behind by drug-addicted parents. Once you are found to be fit as guardians, the Court will not allow a drug-addicted mother to again be responsible for her child until she cleans up her act. A guardianship is often temporary, until at least one parent of the child undergoes drug rehabilitation and can safely take responsibility for his/her child, but it also sometimes becomes a permanent arrangement. Drugs have become the scourge of today’s society and have affected hundreds of thousands of children across the world. They are the true victims. You are very brave to be willing to take care of this little boy and hopefully, your daughter will be thankful for what you have done for her son.
Q. I have a satellite dish to connect to the Internet, which promised immediate access, but is actually slower than dial-up. I constantly have to call in because have problems with connectivity. They charge an arm and a lef for the service, with which I am totally dissatisfied. I had to pay $700 for the dish. I want money back. Can I?
A. It is doubtful but it depends if you had a warranty and how long ago you had it installed on your property. Your story sounds so familiar. In fact, I went back to a dial-up connection because I was tired of paying $65 a month for this so-called “really fast connection”. Satellite dish is highly affected by the weather unfortunately, and of course customers are never told about these problems ahead of time. You best bet is to give your satellite company notice that you want to stop their “bad” service and find another way to connect to the Internet. Good luck!
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