Originally Printed: October 6, 2004
Maxine de Villefranche is an attorney and civil general practitioner with 12 years of experience. She moved to Tehachapi in June 2003 and resides in Alpine Forest. She operates her law practice from her home office and also has a satellite office in Lancaster. She will answer legal questions posed to her by the readers, to the best of her abilities.
Q. My daughter is permanently disabled and will never be able to support herself. She is 18 years old. Her father wants to stop paying the child support ordered by the divorce court. I cannot afford to support my daughter by myself for the rest of her life. What can I do?
A. Both parents have a duty to support a disabled adult child. If your daughter is attending high school full-time and has not yet graduated, your ex-husband must continue to pay the child support until she turns 19. If your daughter does not attend high school, your ex-husband may want medical proof that your daughter is unable to work for the rest of her life. You should file an Order to Show Cause re: Continued support for a disabled adult child with the court that granted your divorce. You should not have to bear the burden of supporting your disabled daughter alone. However, the court may order your ex-husband to pay less support. Remember, parents of a disabled adult child can only support him or her to the best of their financial ability. By the way, there are governmental programs that can help with the schooling, training and medical needs to your disabled child, and I hope that you have taken advantage of such programs.
Q. My son’s girlfriend died in a car crash a few days ago. They have a daughter who is 1 year old. The dead girlfriend’s parents are seeking guardianship of this child, but so am I. My son is incarcerated because he had a fight with his girlfriend. What can I do?
A. You are short on details about your son’s situation and why he cannot raise his own daughter. If the maternal grandparents have filed a Petitioner for Guardianship, you will be notified of where and when the hearing will take place. You can object to their petition and introduce yourself as a potential guardian for this child. The court will appoint an investigator who will look into who would be the best custodian of this child. This may be an expensive proposition with legal and investigation fees. You have an uphill battle ahead of you, but if you feel you the better “substitute parent” and your son still wants to be part of his daughter’s life, then you should proceed without objection to the maternal grandparents having guardianship.
Forward questions to maxinedev@msn.com , drop questions at the Tehachapi News, located at 411 N. Mill St., or send them to POB 1840, Tehachapi, CA 93581
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